Wise Speech
May 49, 2926
Proverbs 13:3 (NKJV) He who guards his mouth preserves his life, [But] he who opens wide his lips shall have destruction.
Proverbs 15:28 (NKJV) The heart of the righteous studies how to answer, But the mouth of the wicked pours forth evil.
These proverbs reflect another cardinal rule in my father’s house; “Never speak unless you have something to say.” This rule was a complete mystery to my wife when we got married. In her home, the rule was pretty much the exact opposite! In the Huber household, the loudest and first to speak got to be heard. Not so on the Illinois farms. There we contemplated and kept silent, and when something of note came to mind we spoke when there was an opportunity. Of course, children never spoke when adults were speaking, and adults never spoke a word until no one else was talking. You waited for a gap in the conversation before you dared to offer a word of your own. Needless to say, it took me awhile to fit into my new in-law’s family, but eventually, I learned to speak up occasionally, though after 50 years, I’m still considered the quiet one in the family.
But back to our scripture, our society today is saturated with speech; radio, TV, podcasts, and most of all, political ads. What a cacophony of words assaults us at every turn. The proverbs of Solomon remind us of the value of quiet contemplation. Many of us could profit by taking some time to study how to answer and guard our mouth. Yesterday, we spoke of forgiveness, and that reminds us that many offenses could be avoided in the first place if we just stopped to think before we spoke a careless word. Jesus spoke of idle words which would lead to consequences:
Matthew 12:35-37 (NKJV)
35 “A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and anevil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things. 36 “But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. 37 “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”
So consider how you speak. Speak words of life and spread peace where you can. An encouraging word can go a long way to soothing the troubled waters of your life.